My Turn: Eco-friendly Valentine’s Day

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Love is in the air! It’s that time of year when our kids celebrate friendship and love by indulging in treats and handing out cards to their friends during Valentine’s Day class parties. It’s so exciting for them to receive these goodies from their classmates to show how much they care about each other, but have you noticed all the waste that these cute little parties produce?

This holiday is all about love, and that includes showing love to the earth as well as to each other. Here are some fun and easy ways to throw an eco-friendly Valentine’s Day party.

Valentine’s Day has a love affair with chocolate and heart-shaped candy, but it’s important to choose these treats carefully. Look for natural and organic candy and baked goods, which don’t contain harmful chemicals and are better for our health and the environment. Goodies wrapped in paper boxes or foil can be recycled. You can also buy candy in bulk and wrap it yourself in cute cloth pouches or small paper boxes. Avoid food wrapped in excessive plastic (such as dips and pre-packaged fruit salads); use glass or stainless steel containers for leftovers.

Party Goods
You can make a big impact by avoiding plastic or Styrofoam. Instead, look for paper (recycled is best), bamboo or even plates and utensils made out of palm leaves. If the children need straws for neatness, look for paper or stainless steel options. If possible, use real cloth tablecloths. Napkins made from recycled materials are now readily available online and at major retailers.

What kind of Valentine’s Day celebration would there be without all the red and pink heart decorations? Here are some ways to go green when you decorate the classroom:
• Choose paper decorations.
• Make your own decorations using last year’s Valentine’s cards, ribbons and tissue paper from gifts you received or recycled paper that you can draw, paint or stamp with hearts and cupids.
• Use natural items like apples and cherries, red plants and flowers and rocks, leaves, flower petals or pinecones you can glue into heart shapes.
• Check out local thrift stores, online sites like and garage sales for treasures that can add a sparkle to your party decor.

Festive Attire
When you choose the perfect outfit for your child, look for organic options that don’t use pesticides and other toxic materials that can get absorbed by our skin and cause irritation and other negative health consequences. By opting for fabrics like organic cotton, you minimize the harmful effect of carbon on our planet and limit the exposure of chemicals that harm the environment and our kids.

Photo courtesy of Sandi Schwartz

Of course, the main event of any Valentine’s class party is the valentines. Those produced each year and tossed in the garbage harm the environment in a ways like deforestation, air pollution and greenhouse gases that cause climate change. We can make a big difference by cutting back on our paper use with a few creative tricks.
• Find cards made from recycled paper.
• Help your children make their own cards from recycled paper and leftover materials around the house. This way they can personalize them and their friends will feel so special!
• Spread a green message by handing out paper cards with seeds embedded in them. Look for colorful hearts or other fun shapes. Then, each child can go home and plant it to grow their own flowers or herbs, which will make the holiday all the more special.


Local Resources

MOM’s Organic Market ( Locations in Center City, Bryn Mawr, Abington, and Cherry Hill.

Wholefoods ( Several locations in area including South Street, Wynnewood, Cherry Hill, Mt. Laurel, Newtown, and more.

Sprouts Farmers Market ( Locations in Marlton, Dresher, Wilmington, and Philadelphia.

The Resource Exchange ( Provides inspiration and reclaimed materials for creative and environmentally resourceful making, teaching, and living.

Minnow Lane ( Natural, organic, and sustainably made essentials for children including art supplies.

Sandi Schwartz, a mother of two, has written extensively about parenting, wellness and environmental issues for publications including our sister MidAtlantic Media parenting magazines, and is founder and director of the Ecohappiness Project.


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