{"id":4206,"date":"2012-02-24T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2012-02-24T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.metrokids.com\/index.php\/2012\/02\/24\/shhhhh-dont-tell-anyone-but\/"},"modified":"2012-02-24T06:00:00","modified_gmt":"2012-02-24T06:00:00","slug":"shhhhh-dont-tell-anyone-but","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.metrokids.com\/shhhhh-dont-tell-anyone-but\/","title":{"rendered":"Shhhhh Don't Tell Anyone, but…"},"content":{"rendered":"
\n\tMotherhood has opened an entirely new door of gossip potential. In the past gossip centered around romantic entanglements, drunken escapades and career scandal, now gossip has even more fuel. There are people's homes to critique, husbands to speculate about, parenting styles to criticize and even children to whisper about.<\/p>\n
\n\tAnd really, I thought gossiping was reserved for the sorority house and maybe, when I was 80, the retirement village.<\/p>\n
\n\tFor better or worse, most of us do it. We gossip. We listen to gossip. We read gossip. We pass tiny little judgments that spiral into enormously malicious spoken words. <\/p>\n
\n\tMaybe we think we are just venting. But we all know it takes one little nugget of not-so-nice-knowledge to destroy a reputation or a friendship.<\/p>\n
\n\tI am certainly not innocent. I am completely guilty of gossiping, but I like to believe in my heart that I vent or I share information that does not hurt anyone or harm anyone or have any meaning. <\/p>\n
\n\tOf course, I am fooling myself. <\/p>\n
\n\tEven when we just read a story about Brad Pitt in US Weekly <\/em>and then forward the story to a friend, we are harming someone. We are passing along something that is absolutely none of our business and spreading the bad words along, encouraging the conversation about something that does not matter at all.<\/p>\n \n\tOr when we decide someone has slighted us and we decide to take our case to the streets. We tell our friend that Sally-Jo is a snob and then well, Sally-Jo, becomes a snob in the minds of everyone who hears it. <\/p>\n \n\tAnd then did I mention that our children are watching all of this. Listening to every word, working out in their minds how gossip can be social gold. <\/p>\n \n\tIt is nasty stuff this gossip. As a recovering gossip addict (who slips off the wagon from time to time), I'd like to share the lessons I have learned from Christ, yoga and motherhood. Here are my top 3.<\/p>\n \n\tTrish Adkins is a South Jersey mom. This post is adapted from blog, <\/em>Yoke.<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Blogger Trish Adkins, describing herself as a recovering gossip addict and notes that our children learn from how we treat others.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4207,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34],"tags":[13469,8202,3536,547,11978,5205,13468,13471,9544,424,11771,1333,13470,13472,13473,9372,4761,13474,7578],"yoast_head":"\n
\n\tand then well, Sally-Jo, becomes a snob
\n\tin the minds of everyone who hears it.<\/div>\n\n