Rabbi Binyomin Davis and his wife, Gevura, run Aish Chaim, a Jewish community in the Main Line grouping of neighborhoods west of Philadelphia.
They are also parents of three sons—Baruch (20), Ezy (18) and Simcha (11)—and two daughters—Temima (16) and Rochel Leah (14)—all older than age 10.
The Davises are busy.
Work and parenting aside, the rabbi also recently finished running in the Boston Marathon.
But somehow, it gets even busier than that, as the family now has a new addition: baby No. 6—named Sholom Yehuda.
Rabbi Davis shares about what it’s like to run a synagogue, father a large family, run marathons and become a new father again in his 40s.
What was it like to have a new child in your 40s when your other five children were older?
It was an amazing experience. It felt like we were bringing him home to seven parents. He has received a lot of love, and we work together to help him. It was a little different since there’s an age gap of 11 years between [the fifth and sixth child], but it’s been a joyful addition to our family, and we are thankful to God to be able to bring more life into the world.
How do the older children feel about having a new baby to take care of?
They love him so much and help a lot. It has helped the atmosphere in the house, and everyone is always happy!
You’re a marathon runner. You just ran in the Boston Marathon. Does the word marathon also now describe your journey as a father?
For sure. It’s good to be in shape in general in life, and especially as a father since there is a lot of physical work, and it’s also good to have your head in a good place. And yes, being a parent is about setting a steady pace and understanding that it’s a long-term journey of relationship, connection, love, development and hope. Much like a marathon, it’s not just about 1 mile but a long journey together.
You have been balancing your rabbinical duties with fatherhood for two decades now. Are you a pro at it at this point? Or do you still have more to learn?
We can always improve, but that said, I think I’ve just about got it down. The new baby has definitely been a new challenge to juggle it all, but from our greatest challenges comes the most growth.
What has your grounding in faith, scripture and prayer [said] to you about this unexpected and challenging (in a good way) moment in your life?
God runs the world. We are just actors in it. So, get on the stage and put in one heck of a performance!
Family Favorites
Way to Spend a Good Weekend: Sundays at the lake, or in the winter, just a good hot chocolate and family time
Vacation Spot: Fripp Island, South Carolina
Local Spot: Marsh Creek State Park
Game: Baseball ([Kansas City]Royals fans)
Meal: Brisket and potatoes, although I do have one daughter who is a vegetarian!
