Helping Those in Transition
By Erin Flynn Jay
The target market for my book Mastering the Mommy Track is working mothers with young kids, and those who are unemployed or underemployed.
Unemployed parents face great stress because of the need to provide for their kids. If you know a mom (or dad) who is in a transitional stage, here are some ways you can reach out to help them
Lend an ear. Invite your friend out for a coffee, a chance to hear what they’re dealing with. They might need a shoulder to cry on or would welcome time away from the computer searching for job leads or new clients.
Recommend local resources. If you know of local services they would benefit from, speak up. If their unemployment is a long length of time, they may have to find a lower-cost family health insurance plan, assistance services or even go on food stamps.
Offer a playdate. If your child is the same age as your friend’s, offer to watch him or her for an afternoon so your friend can have some much-needed free time to decompress.
Babysit for an evening. Offer to babysit your friend’s kid(s) so she can go out on a date with her spouse. They don’t have disposable income, so a night out would be a treat for them.
Cook some meals. Drop off some meals for your friend so she does not have to cook for a few nights. This will alleviate her stress level just a bit. She will appreciate it. (Who can refuse a hot dinner at one’s doorstep?)
Extended unemployment can wreak havoc on a family — unfortunately, some couples don’t survive the bumps when faced with drastic cuts. Financial worries are a main reason couples split up.
Reach out to those locally who need your help. Consider these ways to assist your neighbor or friend in transition.
Erin Flynn Jay is a Philadelphia writer, public relations executive and mom of two girls. This post was adapted from her blog, Mastering the Mommy Track.